{"id":13160,"date":"2013-09-09T21:48:29","date_gmt":"2013-09-10T02:48:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.kenperlin.com\/?p=13160"},"modified":"2013-09-09T21:48:59","modified_gmt":"2013-09-10T02:48:59","slug":"while-lying-in-bed-this-morning","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/blog.kenperlin.com\/?p=13160","title":{"rendered":"Lying in bed this morning"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Lying in bed this morning, still half asleep, I found myself thinking back on a certain beloved TV show.  It was one of those situation comedies that centers around little people and their lives, but in particular I was thinking about the sad-sack main character, who comes into work every day to verbally spar with his feisty secretary, never realizing that she is secretly in love with him.<\/p>\n<p>Of course the audience knows the truth, and that&#8217;s what makes the show work.  I was thinking about how eventually the actress who played the secretary left the show &#8212; one of those inevitable casting changes &#8212; and the opportunity was lost for these two people to find happiness together.  Even though it was just a silly sitcom, the kind of show where you weren&#8217;t supposed to take anything too seriously, it still seemed sad to me, that missed connection.<\/p>\n<p>I could see their faces so vividly in my mind, and little details like her dark pixie-cut hair, his badly fitting suit.  Lying half awake, trying to remember the name of the show, and where else I had seen that actor and actress, I gradually realized that none of it was real.<\/p>\n<p>There had never been such a show.  My half-dreaming mind had made up the entire wistful reality in those brief moments between dream and wakefulness.<\/p>\n<p>Before getting out of bed, I took a moment to mourn this show I would never see, this make-believe missed opportunity for happiness, and those two sad, funny and oddly appealing people who would never meet their true love, even in reruns.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Lying in bed this morning, still half asleep, I found myself thinking back on a certain beloved TV show. It was one of those situation comedies that centers around little people and their lives, but in particular I was thinking about the sad-sack main character, who comes into work every day to verbally spar with &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.kenperlin.com\/?p=13160\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Lying in bed this morning&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/blog.kenperlin.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13160"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/blog.kenperlin.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/blog.kenperlin.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/blog.kenperlin.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/blog.kenperlin.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=13160"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/blog.kenperlin.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13160\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13162,"href":"http:\/\/blog.kenperlin.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13160\/revisions\/13162"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/blog.kenperlin.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=13160"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/blog.kenperlin.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=13160"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/blog.kenperlin.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=13160"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}