{"id":14179,"date":"2013-12-22T22:30:55","date_gmt":"2013-12-23T03:30:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.kenperlin.com\/?p=14179"},"modified":"2013-12-23T00:25:05","modified_gmt":"2013-12-23T05:25:05","slug":"two-step-program","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/blog.kenperlin.com\/?p=14179","title":{"rendered":"Two step program"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>From time to time each of us vows to shake off some inconvenient habit or other.  For me this has happened on a number of occasions, including an unfortunate tendency to have just &#8220;one more&#8221; shot of espresso at work.<\/p>\n<p>As the new year approaches, we may resolve to swear off one or more of these habits.  The problem isn&#8217;t making the resolution, but rather sticking to it.<\/p>\n<p>I have noticed that when trying to walk the virtuous path, I find myself in one of two mental states in the course of a day.  Either I am (1) finding it easy, or (2) finding it really, really difficult.<\/p>\n<p>So here&#8217;s the thing.  When you&#8217;re in mental state (1) it&#8217;s easy.  But when you&#8217;re in mental state (2), you&#8217;ve got to ask yourself: Isn&#8217;t that the problem right there?  Anything you crave so desperately is sure to be bad for you.<\/p>\n<p>I mean, who wants to turn into Gollum muttering about his &#8220;Precious&#8221;?  He may have a high polygon count, but that guy is seriously nuts.<\/p>\n<p>The trick is to turn your craving on its head.  Use its very intensity as a clear reminder of why you ditched your annoying habit in the first place.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve taken the liberty of creating a handy diagram that replicates my own internal mental process, which I call my &#8220;two step program&#8221;.  For me it has worked like a charm:<\/p>\n<p><center><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.kenperlin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/decision-tree.jpg\"><\/center><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>From time to time each of us vows to shake off some inconvenient habit or other. For me this has happened on a number of occasions, including an unfortunate tendency to have just &#8220;one more&#8221; shot of espresso at work. As the new year approaches, we may resolve to swear off one or more of &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.kenperlin.com\/?p=14179\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Two step program&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/blog.kenperlin.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14179"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/blog.kenperlin.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/blog.kenperlin.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/blog.kenperlin.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/blog.kenperlin.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=14179"}],"version-history":[{"count":15,"href":"http:\/\/blog.kenperlin.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14179\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":14195,"href":"http:\/\/blog.kenperlin.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14179\/revisions\/14195"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/blog.kenperlin.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=14179"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/blog.kenperlin.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=14179"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/blog.kenperlin.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=14179"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}