when I was in Kindergarten I had a crush on a very beautiful girl in our class. She was very nice, and we got along really well, and I was very happy when the teacher seated us next to each other.
There was another little girl who was a “problem child”. She would get angry and throw tantrums, and would often take the scissors and crayons away from whoever was sitting next to her.
The teacher saw that I was the only student who had the patience to be with her without getting angry. So I was reassigned to sit next to her.
I was very sad about this, because I could no longer sit next to the girl I had a crush on. But it was probably much better for the other little girl, and maybe for the whole class.
There is a lesson here somewhere. I’m just not sure what it is.